All because of a TikTok

My child got mad over a TikTok video I posted eliciting my ex MIL following me. She used to do this on a regular both when I was married to her son and after. She actually used to stalk me while I was married to her son. She’d pay her daughter gas money to come drive by the house I was staying in and take photos of the home and my vehicles outside. After we divorced I did not drive due to medical issues. That didn’t stop them from claiming to a judge in a request for a permanent protective order that was in fact denied on the basis it was determined they lied that I was following them and going places they were. No, I wasn’t. And like I said. The judge even determined that to be a lie and denied their TPO. Anyways. Yeah. She used to follow me but, doesn’t anymore. Everyone now and then they show up to where I am but, apparently that’s me following them even though there have been times where I had been somewhere and physically saw them walk in. I’m still following. You know, they own the world. So. Like I said, my child got mad that I posted that and made some comments to me. After not getting the reaction she must have wanted on TikTok she then came to my Instagram and left this comment in my messages.

To which I can only say the same thing I recently said to a friend in messages. 

“This clearly shows me that she’s been more than lied to. She was a baby. She knew nothing but love from my side because I was the one that had her every single day. I was the one that took care of her, her dad didn’t even want her and tried to make me miscarry several times. This child knew another man as her father for the first year of her life because her dad was so fucking dangerous she couldn’t be kept around him and we stayed elsewhere. It’s both a blessing and a shame that she was a baby and doesn’t remember anything. That’s how he’s able to manufacture memories. She doesn’t remember. 

What’s the truth about me? That AFTER he cheated on me when i was pregnant with Ethan neither one of us were faithful ever again? If so. That’s true. Other than that there is absolutely no truth about me to tell. And why would they be telling CHILDREN adult issues anyways? I do trash talk then. But, if they didn’t trash talk me she wouldn’t know “the truth” about me now would she? No. I’d like to know exactly what I caused? I’m not the one that lied on their other parent, had them arrested and then kidnapped them from said parent. I caused nothing. What exactly is my fault? Again, I did not make the choice to be removed from their lives. That choice was made for me by a bunch of lying ass cowards. 

I didn’t get them anywhere. Their father, step mother and grandparents along with all of the other enablers did.”

I hope one day my children realize this isn’t a competition. It’s not about who’s better and who’s not. It’s not about who did what and who didn’t. It’s about two children that didn’t get to grow up with their mama because of hate. It’s about two children that we continually (still) lies to about things that did not happen. It’s about children that have manufactured hate towards someone they shouldn’t. It’s about two children that will never be able to have a normal life and might always have issues because someone they love and trust LIED to them. I just hope and pray they are able to love situsbor loving lives. I hope they understand they were always loved and wanted. I hope one day they are able to understand and process the truth and what was done to them.