The Erased Mother

God will love you no matter what, just be honest with him, yourself and everyone that surrounds you. If you are truly one with God then nothing you admit to can make a difference. Living a lie is not anyway to live. If you have done things in the past you are ashamed of and feel you must now lie about in order to live how you would like to or have people think you do thats no way to live, it will always haunt you and you will never be right with it. Admit your wrongs, get right with God and move on!

Today is a day close to my heart. As someone who is a victim of a very sad little persons rentless campaign to smear me I deal with bullying everyday!  October is National Bullying Prevention Awareness Month and today just so happens to be World Day of Bullying Prevention! http://www.stompoutbullying.org/index.php/campaigns/blue-shirt-day-world-day-bullying-prevention/ Help stomp out bullying by raising awareness! 

I bought this domain and dont want to host it on the current service anymore so I have moved it. It may take it a few days to show up on the new one! :) Dont worry, everything will be right back and nothing lost! I also now have a guest blogger so I am excited about that! UPDATE!!! Apparently it is taking a few to fix the "name servers" so who knows when it will be back, shouldn't be too much longer! :)

This was said about me by someone I do not even know, at all. I guess someone thinks very highly of themselves? Who knows. I do love though how I am being proven more and more each and every day how obsessed some people are with me. "I know this type of person all to well as I have myself gone through this. Her kids are not in her custody for a reason. That's not so easily done since the law truly doesn't like taking children from their mothers. Blog that!" No you're wrong. Her name actually starts with an R. I don't even know you. Stalker... But I do find it FREAKISHLY scary how many times you come to my blog night and day to check up on me, get a hobby. :/ And while you are on it... No one took anything from me you flaming idiot. When someone request custody in a divorce and the other party does not come to court (because I had surgery) BY DEFAULT custody goes to the other party. I have in my custody my other children, did you know that or did someone tell y

Maternal Deprivation Abuse is the same thing as Paternal Alienation. For more info on this and statistics please visit the website below! http://www.savingdamon.com

Its been years and everyone has moved on. Don't you think it is time to stop the madness and let your children have a good childhood? I do.

DEFINITION The present section provides a beginning definition of the Divorce-Related Fetid Fathering Syndrome, which has been derived from clinical and legal cases. As in all initial proposals, it is anticipated that future research will lead to greater refinement in the taxonomic criteria. The proposed definition encompasses four major criteria, as follows: 1. A man who unjustifiably punishes his divorcing or divorced wife by: a. Attempting to remove the children from their closest attachment b. Involving others in fetid actions against the mother c. Engaging in excessive  litigation 2. The father specifically attempts to "possess" or "access" i.e. control and manipulate what he considers to be his human chattel, i.e. his ex-wife and the children by, among other things, a. Refusing to maintain a regular and consistent visitation schedule, refusing to regularly make payments of child and spousal support, refusing to continue the  marital pattern  of primary caregiv

The month of October holds home to many awareness campaigns but there are two that stand out the most to me and that is that it is National Bullying Prevention Month and Domestic Violence Awareness Month! I can not stress enough how important it is to educate your children about both being a bully and how not to be bullied. Lets face it, people that bully people are everywhere and they come in all shapes and sizes. Its better to teach the children how to cope with, deal and respect others than to have them grow up to be narcissist who think they can do no wrong or worse, someone that gets bullied non stop.  This is something that has become near and close to my heart since I deal with it every day of my life. PLEASE, make yourself and others around you aware of this and put an end to bullying! The next is Domestic Violence.  Did you know that 1 in 4 women will experience some sort of DV in their lifetime? I refuse to go into much of what my past life entails but I was a victim BAD, I s

I feel as if I need to maybe state this again. This blog is MY story, it is meant as an outlet to voice things that go on in MY life from dealing with abusers and the many things they may do, say or bestow on me. It is not meant to flame, slander or harass anyone. With that being said... I think there are a few people out there that need to learn what a true bully is, what harassment is, what exactly cyber-stalking and slander is. Let me go into a tad bit of detail on each... Harassment ? HA. I have dealt with this everyday of my life for the last few years from these people. They CONSTANTLY say I am doing things I am not, they lie on me to anyone they may think will side with them and give them pity... Its just crazy! Cyber-Stalking ? I am constantly being followed and if I wasn't then like I asked, how is someone able to know what I posted 9 weeks ago on my PRIVATE INSTAGRAM? Not to mention I have been STALKED in real life... I mean how else did anyone know whee I lived when I mo

This is a direct copy of a post from my other blog... I just don't understand why people can't leave me alone! I was attacked by my ex sister in law yesterday more or less. Out of nowhere the crazy woman starts accusing me of stealing pics of her daughter off of her child's website (we think, not sure). No, I would never do that and have no reason to, have I looked at it? Yes, I have tons of friends that share the status's she makes about her precious daughter and the health issues she has but I have never stolen and would never steal her pics so why she is claiming that makes NO SENSE to me. She then went on to say "I am very upset that this has happened and it has been a portal to hurt others! I do not want to take (child's name) page down because that only means that this person has won." I don't understand what she means by that at all. No one is doing anything to hurt anyone as far as I know? I really think I am lost in all of this honestly. Someo