The Erased Mother

For everyone that believes his story of “she beat the shit out of me.” That’s not what happened.  He hit me and I hit him back in defense. He got a scratch on his face from my nail. I have a photo he posted the day after it happened, there are no marks.  I also have my booking photos. Complete with handprints, footprints and bite marks on my back and arm.   I chose not to have him arrested that night. In Ga when they is evidence between both parties of violence they both go. I chose not to file any charges against him because he was the father of my kids and I didn’t want him to lose his job.  This is the warrant they obtained for me. As you can see there is no mention of the injuries he likes to tell people he had.  None. He’s lying.  The holes on our walls? They were there. Some were from him pushing me through walls and some were from me throwing things to make him back off.  I did not kick or punch holes in the wall and ...

Y’all. Someone just sent me this. Lmfao If you know me, you know I don’t get high. Never have, never will. I don’t believe it’s fun. He fails to mention he beat the shit out of me and THATS why I was at the neighbors house, after weeks of being there and realizing he was with someone... Yes, I moved on. Eventually I went back because he begged me to come home. I still have the email where he promised our son could stay at home and he would quit being violent and cheating. I also love how he doesn’t mention how he cheated on me 3 times before he beat the shit out of me and kicked me out of our home months after we got married. Or how I had bruises on me the day we got married. You know? Small details. First time he cheated I was pregnant with our son. He left me at home, 8 months pregnant to go hang out with some chick named Lucy. I still have all of the text where I found him talking to her about me. I will never forget the day I found out. I was almost due with our son and ...

I came across these. It almost makes me feel sorry for the poor people that believe him and her and their lies. As you can see, these are old post from my old Facebook. :) I am glad I hung on to stuff like this so that when my children are older and they ask why, I can of course show them!

I have ALWAYS stated my ex lied to have me arrested. I know my words are just that, words. Anyone he tells the story to is made to believe his side and only his, they never take the time to stop and think that he COULD BE lying... Which he in fact is. This post will dive into why I am being alienated, how it happened and why. Recently, I shared my old journal where I privately wrote about things going on in my life those last to years with him. Back then I had it "locked down" to what I thought were true friends that turned out to not be. A few of them had turned on me and were feeding him info in real time as I posted. Which brings me to this... There were a few reasons my ex set me up to be arrested: 1. His girlfriend and her child were essentially homeless and had nowhere to go... He had already twice tried to move her into our home without my knowledge or consent. He even allowed her ass to pack ALL of my belongings, destroy some of mine and my daughters things and d...

I have saved absolutely everything and anything. I never shut down my old email accounts from when I was married to E and K's dad. I have emails upon emails of us going back and forth, proof of abuse, photos and all sorts of things. Here are a few. Please be aware some of them are graphic and disheartening. This email was written days after I had my twins. My ex husband attacked me in our kitchen to the point I ended up in the hospital having had to have my c section put back together. This was my email to him about that, I had filed papers to separate myself from him and he had begged me not to. This is one of the many random emails I wrote to him describing how I was sick and tired of the treatment and wanted out. This email was written after a physical altercation at his parents house when I tried to take my child and leave. They didnt want me to take him and tried to FORCEFULLY take him from me. His dad hit me and knocked me to the ground (there is a police report). I ended up ...