The Erased Mother

Got an email from another mama that is a victim of PA with the name of an attorney in it that is REALLY good. I have always stated I will never ever drag my babies through the mud of a court battle instead I will wait it out, they have brains and they will come to know the REAL TRUTH! BUT, its nice to have people out there that care enough about others to send info like that! And that man works for FREE so if any of y'all that read too would like the info then let me know and I will pass it along I don't want to just throw his name out there! They also sent me this and I really enjoyed reading it... I am sure it is quoted from a website but I am not sure which one! " THE CAMPAIGN OF DENIGRATION The campaign of denigration is an example of the construction of family myths which are used for the purpose of turning a child against a previously loved and loving parent. The child is programmed to believe that her/his other parent is: worthless, selfish, unloving, malevolent, un...

I asked to set up visitation with my daughter for her upcoming birthday and yet again as many times passed I got no response or answer at all. One more for the books but one year closer to the coming of age and the telling of truth! :) I will continue to pray for this family that they act right and do what is right by God.

Now just take a moment to read the above statement... Then listen to this! Did you read it or listen? If you did then good. This is so very true! The only thing the people I deal with are interested in is power and domination over me so they can continue years later to victimize me! I am so glad I got out of that DEAD END trap of a "family." I am so in love with the family I have now I can not even begin to put it into words... Before I had a woman whom I used to swear gave birth to Satan as a mother in law (little did I know, SHE DID) and now I have someone who I can call one of my very best friends as a mother in law. I don't have evil lying liar sister in laws but I sure do have a brother in law that I would do anything for! I dont deal with bullies within my family at all, not one bit! We love each other and we build each other up, if one of us is having an issue we dont run and talk behind their backs like my ex family did because we face it head on and feet first in...

CHILDREN WHO ARE VICTIMS OF PARENTAL ALIENATION OFTEN SUFFER FROM THE FOLLOWING LONG-TERM EFFECTS: Low Self-Esteem & Self-Hatred Lack of Trust Guilt Substance Abuse Depression Anger Is that how you want YOUR children to grow up?!?! Check out StabndUpForGus.com. :) While I am a woman fighting a man against PA no one is safe from this. While it is true that it is mostly women that keep fathers from their children it is growin in rate for men to do this too! Men are being abusive to their spouses and having their spouse carted off to jail and then lying to obtain custody and keep the mother away so that he cant continue to hold power over both the woman and children while 9 times out of 10 the father could care less about the children. This is what happened in my case so please no matter who you are EDUCATE yourself and don't let this happen to someone you love. It is easy for someone to say "just go to court" but when you are involved in it from the inside it is simply ...

So many blog post for today, but it is a new one and I probably should have combined all of my rampant thoughts into one but oh well. Anyways, I forgot to mention that since my ex husband cut off contact and failed to take care of the children on his own I have been making video blogs to my babies! That's right, every single missed birthday, Christmas and any other holiday has been documented via video of me saying hello to them along with telling them how much they are loved and missed! I also keep a record of each and every single time I make contact trying to see them so they will see it wasn't me who didn't try! It really breaks my heart to know that certain people could hate a person so much that they would take a way a right to the child to know each of their parents. It breaks my heart to know there are people out there that think it is ok to behave like this, lie like this and try and drag someone through the mud the way they have. And for what? Because you dont lik...

My ex mother in law always did say she thought my mother was trash for the way she did me when it came to my kids and she would hope God to strike her dead if she ever did anyone that way. So, I am wondering why she is still alive? Just a thought. I feel bad for my babies. Many others have said this to me in the past and I notice too, my children are not taken care of to the best of anyone's ability! They wear ripped, tattered, old and faded clothing and I don't think they have had a pair of name brand shoes since I left and hair cuts are not the norm around that house! In photos they don't look happy, they look like the shell of a child. Someone showed me a video where my son called his dad by name and not dad or daddy, that speaks volumes IMO. Its sad when you see a "family photo" and the kids my ex and his home-wrecker have are dressed nice with nicely groomed hair and then you see my babies who are just wearing what appears to have been picked up off the floor...

Like I said I wont be going into back story, I have class unlike my ex husband and I wont be putting things out there that happened in our marriage that led to our demise... I will say though, I can own my demons and I was NOT a perfect wife... However he will never own his, he will always continue to lie about what happened to make himself smell of roses. It is September of 2014 and I have not seen my children since November of 2012 (that was by chance and for ten mins). My ex husband thinks that he does no wrong, he thinks he is some kind of Gods gift to whatever and that he lives right. Well you see he is actually nothing more than a wolf in sheep's clothing. My ex husband will lie all the day long about me, what kind of wife I was and the type of mother I am... Yet he cant take one single piece of blame for anything gone wrong as he is your typical narcissistic human (I use the H word very lightly). When my ex husband and I split he wasn't doing things right, I was try...