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Like I said I wont be going into back story, I have class unlike my ex husband and I wont be putting things out there that happened in our marriage that led to our demise... I will say though, I can own my demons and I was NOT a perfect wife... However he will never own his, he will always continue to lie about what happened to make himself smell of roses.
It is September of 2014 and I have not seen my children since November of 2012 (that was by chance and for ten mins).
My ex husband thinks that he does no wrong, he thinks he is some kind of Gods gift to whatever and that he lives right. Well you see he is actually nothing more than a wolf in sheep's clothing.
My ex husband will lie all the day long about me, what kind of wife I was and the type of mother I am... Yet he cant take one single piece of blame for anything gone wrong as he is your typical narcissistic human (I use the H word very lightly). When my ex husband and I split he wasn't doing things right, I was trying my best to fix what had been broken and instead of him standing up as a man and saying "LOOK, this is the truth" he lied and lied and lied some more and when he was done doing that he lied even more! When he finally filed for divorce I did not live in this state, he stalked me down to where my now mother in law lives and had my twins father served with the papers (wonder how he knew where she lived). It took almost a year to get divorced because, like I said I did not live in this state. I came back to Ga to have surgery for cancer (something he swears I did not have yet can pull up our insurance claims and see my treatments) and on the day of our divorce I had to have surgery... I had NO CHOICE as it was one I had been trying to schedule for months on end. Because of having this surgery I did not attend court which by DEFAULT gave my ex husband custody however, my in laws had guardianship over them so his custody meant NOTHING and that was in 2010... To this day the children do not live with him, he has made NO effort to move them in to his home but he damn sure go and move his home-wrecker in to our home (along with her child) then later had another child with her all the while his two children sat at his parents house. Stellar parenting there.
Me? I take care of my children. The children I didn't have I have regained custody of, been cleared by CPS as having a safe and stable home and I provide for my kids! If it does not come from my husband or I my children DO NOT GET IT! I don't rely on anyone else to buy, clothe, feed or raise my babies I have... I DO IT ALL which is way more than I can say for him.
The above is what makes this all the worse, if you are going to fight SO HARD to keep me away from my babies then go take care of them you loser! Seriously. What kind of a "man" much less "father" throws away a family just to make another? Its called responsibility and being a parents and if you dont want to do it then you need to let someone else, like oh say their MOTHER! My ex husband and his family will tell WILD lies about why I cant see my babies, they have claimed they go to a shrink that told them to "never ever let me see my kids again." Now, Im not sure what planet THEY think they reside on but the only person that can say I cant see my kids again is a JUDGE, a judge is the only person that can make that choice and well, they haven't.
People often as me why I don't pay child support for my kids and it is simple, they file on me for support and I WILL get visitation without supervision and they cant be having that. That's not called being a deadbeat mother, that is called my kids have a deadbeat father that has legal hold and uses then for pawns in his sick sick sick little game.
I have reached out to my ex mother in law multiple times, she never answers. Not even a no. You would think that "Christians" such as they now claim to be would realize that the love from two parents is better than half of the love from one. These sick people do not realize that while they think they are hurting me they are causing irreversible damage to these babies... This can and will more than likely cause lifelong damage once they grow up, seek me out and realize their entire child hood was a lie. and that last statement brings me to what I always say when asked about this... They can keep me from them now but they cant keep their claws in them forever. When they get old enough they will find me and they will know the TRUE truth and at that time I will have them for the rest of their lives. I will be the one to enjoy marriages, grand-babies and life milestones... Not the devils that kept them from their mother.
It is September of 2014 and I have not seen my children since November of 2012 (that was by chance and for ten mins).
My ex husband thinks that he does no wrong, he thinks he is some kind of Gods gift to whatever and that he lives right. Well you see he is actually nothing more than a wolf in sheep's clothing.
My ex husband will lie all the day long about me, what kind of wife I was and the type of mother I am... Yet he cant take one single piece of blame for anything gone wrong as he is your typical narcissistic human (I use the H word very lightly). When my ex husband and I split he wasn't doing things right, I was trying my best to fix what had been broken and instead of him standing up as a man and saying "LOOK, this is the truth" he lied and lied and lied some more and when he was done doing that he lied even more! When he finally filed for divorce I did not live in this state, he stalked me down to where my now mother in law lives and had my twins father served with the papers (wonder how he knew where she lived). It took almost a year to get divorced because, like I said I did not live in this state. I came back to Ga to have surgery for cancer (something he swears I did not have yet can pull up our insurance claims and see my treatments) and on the day of our divorce I had to have surgery... I had NO CHOICE as it was one I had been trying to schedule for months on end. Because of having this surgery I did not attend court which by DEFAULT gave my ex husband custody however, my in laws had guardianship over them so his custody meant NOTHING and that was in 2010... To this day the children do not live with him, he has made NO effort to move them in to his home but he damn sure go and move his home-wrecker in to our home (along with her child) then later had another child with her all the while his two children sat at his parents house. Stellar parenting there.
Me? I take care of my children. The children I didn't have I have regained custody of, been cleared by CPS as having a safe and stable home and I provide for my kids! If it does not come from my husband or I my children DO NOT GET IT! I don't rely on anyone else to buy, clothe, feed or raise my babies I have... I DO IT ALL which is way more than I can say for him.
The above is what makes this all the worse, if you are going to fight SO HARD to keep me away from my babies then go take care of them you loser! Seriously. What kind of a "man" much less "father" throws away a family just to make another? Its called responsibility and being a parents and if you dont want to do it then you need to let someone else, like oh say their MOTHER! My ex husband and his family will tell WILD lies about why I cant see my babies, they have claimed they go to a shrink that told them to "never ever let me see my kids again." Now, Im not sure what planet THEY think they reside on but the only person that can say I cant see my kids again is a JUDGE, a judge is the only person that can make that choice and well, they haven't.
People often as me why I don't pay child support for my kids and it is simple, they file on me for support and I WILL get visitation without supervision and they cant be having that. That's not called being a deadbeat mother, that is called my kids have a deadbeat father that has legal hold and uses then for pawns in his sick sick sick little game.
I have reached out to my ex mother in law multiple times, she never answers. Not even a no. You would think that "Christians" such as they now claim to be would realize that the love from two parents is better than half of the love from one. These sick people do not realize that while they think they are hurting me they are causing irreversible damage to these babies... This can and will more than likely cause lifelong damage once they grow up, seek me out and realize their entire child hood was a lie. and that last statement brings me to what I always say when asked about this... They can keep me from them now but they cant keep their claws in them forever. When they get old enough they will find me and they will know the TRUE truth and at that time I will have them for the rest of their lives. I will be the one to enjoy marriages, grand-babies and life milestones... Not the devils that kept them from their mother.
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