OH!

By ThatMom
Got an email from another mama that is a victim of PA with the name of an attorney in it that is REALLY good. I have always stated I will never ever drag my babies through the mud of a court battle instead I will wait it out, they have brains and they will come to know the REAL TRUTH! BUT, its nice to have people out there that care enough about others to send info like that! And that man works for FREE so if any of y'all that read too would like the info then let me know and I will pass it along I don't want to just throw his name out there!

They also sent me this and I really enjoyed reading it... I am sure it is quoted from a website but I am not sure which one!


"THE CAMPAIGN OF DENIGRATION

The campaign of denigration is an example of the construction of family myths which are
used for the purpose of turning a child against a previously loved and loving parent.
The child is programmed to believe that her/his other parent is: worthless, selfish,
unloving, malevolent, undeserving, and dangerous, etc. The effective result is that the
children become convinced they will be happier, healthier, and better adjusted if their
targeted parent is eradicated from their lives.

Examples of the denigrating behavior are listed below and are not inclusive:

1) Sabotaging and interfering with visits or not permitting visits at all.

2) Depriving the targeted parent of important information about the child, including but
not limited to medical, educational, and social activities.

3) Not informing and excluding the targeted parent from the child's activities, parent/
teacher conferences, birthdays, religious events, graduations, etc.

4) Programming the child against the targeted parent by belittling, criticizing, and
deprecating the targeted parent in the child's presence.

5) Removing the targeted pictures of the targeted parent from the child's awareness.

6) Interference with and not being supportive of contact between the targeted parent and
the child. This contact includes the telephone, text messaging, e-mailing, skype, or other
methods.

7) Making unilateral decisions in major areas regarding the child.

8) Verbally and physically abusing the targeted parent by the child and/or alienating
parent.

9) Defying the targeted parent's supervision and authority.

10) Rejection of the targeted parent's gifts, cards, vacations, and other offers of help.

WEAK, FRIVOLOUS, and ABSURD RATIONALIZATIONS for the DEPRECATION"

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