Disheveled
My ex mother in law always did say she thought my mother was trash for the way she did me when it came to my kids and she would hope God to strike her dead if she ever did anyone that way. So, I am wondering why she is still alive? Just a thought.
I feel bad for my babies.
Many others have said this to me in the past and I notice too, my children are not taken care of to the best of anyone's ability! They wear ripped, tattered, old and faded clothing and I don't think they have had a pair of name brand shoes since I left and hair cuts are not the norm around that house! In photos they don't look happy, they look like the shell of a child. Someone showed me a video where my son called his dad by name and not dad or daddy, that speaks volumes IMO. Its sad when you see a "family photo" and the kids my ex and his home-wrecker have are dressed nice with nicely groomed hair and then you see my babies who are just wearing what appears to have been picked up off the floor and thrown on! One example is an Easter photo someone sent me a few years ago, My ex sister in law was dressed nicely as were her children then you had my babies in ripped jeans, not groomed and looking so sad it was not even funny... Other photos from that day show the children that my ex has to be nicely dressed and in a very different style than mine... I just don't understand why someone would do for one but not the other because that certainly does not happen around here, we make sure everyone has what they need, looks nice and appears to be well taken care of. I guess that is the difference between a parent that cares and one that gives not one shit.
One of them has already found this blog, go figure. They stalk me like the NSA and CIA should be watching other countries! One day I hope for peace and to be able to co parent my children but that would take 4 mature people and my ex, nor his home-wrecker or my ex in laws are capable of being so.
(Please, don't get me wrong... Children DO NOT HAVE TO HAVE name-brand but they at least need to look nice. If I had my babies I would buy them the best of the best because that is what they deserve. I would do for them before I bought any camera, car part or cell phone).
I feel bad for my babies.
Many others have said this to me in the past and I notice too, my children are not taken care of to the best of anyone's ability! They wear ripped, tattered, old and faded clothing and I don't think they have had a pair of name brand shoes since I left and hair cuts are not the norm around that house! In photos they don't look happy, they look like the shell of a child. Someone showed me a video where my son called his dad by name and not dad or daddy, that speaks volumes IMO. Its sad when you see a "family photo" and the kids my ex and his home-wrecker have are dressed nice with nicely groomed hair and then you see my babies who are just wearing what appears to have been picked up off the floor and thrown on! One example is an Easter photo someone sent me a few years ago, My ex sister in law was dressed nicely as were her children then you had my babies in ripped jeans, not groomed and looking so sad it was not even funny... Other photos from that day show the children that my ex has to be nicely dressed and in a very different style than mine... I just don't understand why someone would do for one but not the other because that certainly does not happen around here, we make sure everyone has what they need, looks nice and appears to be well taken care of. I guess that is the difference between a parent that cares and one that gives not one shit.
One of them has already found this blog, go figure. They stalk me like the NSA and CIA should be watching other countries! One day I hope for peace and to be able to co parent my children but that would take 4 mature people and my ex, nor his home-wrecker or my ex in laws are capable of being so.
(Please, don't get me wrong... Children DO NOT HAVE TO HAVE name-brand but they at least need to look nice. If I had my babies I would buy them the best of the best because that is what they deserve. I would do for them before I bought any camera, car part or cell phone).
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