The Erased Mother

I’m choosing not to address this as I previously did on my socials. I will leave it here. I was send a snippet of what my ex is saying about me online, yet again. So, I will address this one last time and leave it here for eternity.  Whoever is doing this. Please stop. Also, I don’t need you to send me these. I don’t care. But, I will respond in order to defend myself. B, that’s not me. Sorry, not sorry. Believe me, I have better things to do then post from some fake account. As you can CLEARLY SEE I have no issue whatsoever speaking from my own name. My arrest records? Shut up you sorry fuck. I have and will (you can actually see it on my blog or my page) an explanation of every single time I’ve ever been arrested. I don’t have a “record.” Have I been arrested? Yes. Do I have a record? No. Lmao court records? Yeah. I do have some when it comes to you and your wife. Why? Because the two of you continued to repeatedly file fake TPO’s against me. Might I add TPO’s that were ...

I have ALWAYS stated my ex lied to have me arrested. I know my words are just that, words. Anyone he tells the story to is made to believe his side and only his, they never take the time to stop and think that he COULD BE lying... Which he in fact is. This post will dive into why I am being alienated, how it happened and why. Recently, I shared my old journal where I privately wrote about things going on in my life those last to years with him. Back then I had it "locked down" to what I thought were true friends that turned out to not be. A few of them had turned on me and were feeding him info in real time as I posted. Which brings me to this... There were a few reasons my ex set me up to be arrested: 1. His girlfriend and her child were essentially homeless and had nowhere to go... He had already twice tried to move her into our home without my knowledge or consent. He even allowed her ass to pack ALL of my belongings, destroy some of mine and my daughters things and d...

DEFINITION The present section provides a beginning definition of the Divorce-Related Fetid Fathering Syndrome, which has been derived from clinical and legal cases. As in all initial proposals, it is anticipated that future research will lead to greater refinement in the taxonomic criteria. The proposed definition encompasses four major criteria, as follows: 1. A man who unjustifiably punishes his divorcing or divorced wife by: a. Attempting to remove the children from their closest attachment b. Involving others in fetid actions against the mother c. Engaging in excessive  litigation 2. The father specifically attempts to "possess" or "access" i.e. control and manipulate what he considers to be his human chattel, i.e. his ex-wife and the children by, among other things, a. Refusing to maintain a regular and consistent visitation schedule, refusing to regularly make payments of child and spousal support, refusing to continue the  marital pattern  of primary caregiv...

The month of October holds home to many awareness campaigns but there are two that stand out the most to me and that is that it is National Bullying Prevention Month and Domestic Violence Awareness Month! I can not stress enough how important it is to educate your children about both being a bully and how not to be bullied. Lets face it, people that bully people are everywhere and they come in all shapes and sizes. Its better to teach the children how to cope with, deal and respect others than to have them grow up to be narcissist who think they can do no wrong or worse, someone that gets bullied non stop.  This is something that has become near and close to my heart since I deal with it every day of my life. PLEASE, make yourself and others around you aware of this and put an end to bullying! The next is Domestic Violence.  Did you know that 1 in 4 women will experience some sort of DV in their lifetime? I refuse to go into much of what my past life entails but I was a victim...