The Erased Mother

For everyone that believes his story of “she beat the shit out of me.” That’s not what happened.  He hit me and I hit him back in defense. He got a scratch on his face from my nail. I have a photo he posted the day after it happened, there are no marks.  I also have my booking photos. Complete with handprints, footprints and bite marks on my back and arm.   I chose not to have him arrested that night. In Ga when they is evidence between both parties of violence they both go. I chose not to file any charges against him because he was the father of my kids and I didn’t want him to lose his job.  This is the warrant they obtained for me. As you can see there is no mention of the injuries he likes to tell people he had.  None. He’s lying.  The holes on our walls? They were there. Some were from him pushing me through walls and some were from me throwing things to make him back off.  I did not kick or punch holes in the wall and ...

I am in a mom group. I have been for a while. Some of the moms in the group have been around since everything went down back in 2010. They listened to my ex abuse me on the phone, one of them sent the police to my house once (I told them we were fine and they could leave), a lot of them helped me after he had me falsely arrested. So, one of them took it upon them selves to try and reason with the ex and see if they could get some answers. I did not ask this person to do this and I almost wish they hadn't. But, the answers or lack there of are absolutely comical at best to me. He has absolutely no problems about bashing me in private messages or on the phone but he wont EVER put it out there publicly because, it isn't the truth. He, she and his entire family lied and they know it. They know one day these kids will realize them for what they are and they don't want anymore hard evidence to swing it my way. I get it, I understand. I just still feel like this could all end so ...

I’m choosing not to address this as I previously did on my socials. I will leave it here. I was send a snippet of what my ex is saying about me online, yet again. So, I will address this one last time and leave it here for eternity.  Whoever is doing this. Please stop. Also, I don’t need you to send me these. I don’t care. But, I will respond in order to defend myself. B, that’s not me. Sorry, not sorry. Believe me, I have better things to do then post from some fake account. As you can CLEARLY SEE I have no issue whatsoever speaking from my own name. My arrest records? Shut up you sorry fuck. I have and will (you can actually see it on my blog or my page) an explanation of every single time I’ve ever been arrested. I don’t have a “record.” Have I been arrested? Yes. Do I have a record? No. Lmao court records? Yeah. I do have some when it comes to you and your wife. Why? Because the two of you continued to repeatedly file fake TPO’s against me. Might I add TPO’s that were ...

I came across these. It almost makes me feel sorry for the poor people that believe him and her and their lies. As you can see, these are old post from my old Facebook. :) I am glad I hung on to stuff like this so that when my children are older and they ask why, I can of course show them!

#ParentalAlienation is very real and it is carried out by abusive cowards not just during the holiday season as a tactic to further vilify and victimize the alienated parent but all year long too. I am and have been the victim of not only PA but #DomesticAbuseByProxy and #MaternalDeprivation for years. My ex husband was a lying abusive violent shell of a man that once the relationship ended and he could no longer physically abuse me chose to keep my children from me. My children have suffered their entire childhood and will have lifetime results they will have to deal with due to this monstrous injustice that has taken place against them. Most often people don't think when they make choices concerning their children, they use children as weapons while not realizing one day their ammo will in fact run out. Don't be a jerk, learn to coparent and do what is best for your child/children... not yourself. If you're a step parent, sit down and let the REAL parents of the child/chi...

I have ALWAYS stated my ex lied to have me arrested. I know my words are just that, words. Anyone he tells the story to is made to believe his side and only his, they never take the time to stop and think that he COULD BE lying... Which he in fact is. This post will dive into why I am being alienated, how it happened and why. Recently, I shared my old journal where I privately wrote about things going on in my life those last to years with him. Back then I had it "locked down" to what I thought were true friends that turned out to not be. A few of them had turned on me and were feeding him info in real time as I posted. Which brings me to this... There were a few reasons my ex set me up to be arrested: 1. His girlfriend and her child were essentially homeless and had nowhere to go... He had already twice tried to move her into our home without my knowledge or consent. He even allowed her ass to pack ALL of my belongings, destroy some of mine and my daughters things and d...

I feel as if I need to maybe state this again. This blog is MY story, it is meant as an outlet to voice things that go on in MY life from dealing with abusers and the many things they may do, say or bestow on me. It is not meant to flame, slander or harass anyone. With that being said... I think there are a few people out there that need to learn what a true bully is, what harassment is, what exactly cyber-stalking and slander is. Let me go into a tad bit of detail on each... Harassment ? HA. I have dealt with this everyday of my life for the last few years from these people. They CONSTANTLY say I am doing things I am not, they lie on me to anyone they may think will side with them and give them pity... Its just crazy! Cyber-Stalking ? I am constantly being followed and if I wasn't then like I asked, how is someone able to know what I posted 9 weeks ago on my PRIVATE INSTAGRAM? Not to mention I have been STALKED in real life... I mean how else did anyone know whee I lived when I mo...

This is a direct copy of a post from my other blog... I just don't understand why people can't leave me alone! I was attacked by my ex sister in law yesterday more or less. Out of nowhere the crazy woman starts accusing me of stealing pics of her daughter off of her child's website (we think, not sure). No, I would never do that and have no reason to, have I looked at it? Yes, I have tons of friends that share the status's she makes about her precious daughter and the health issues she has but I have never stolen and would never steal her pics so why she is claiming that makes NO SENSE to me. She then went on to say "I am very upset that this has happened and it has been a portal to hurt others! I do not want to take (child's name) page down because that only means that this person has won." I don't understand what she means by that at all. No one is doing anything to hurt anyone as far as I know? I really think I am lost in all of this honestly. Someo...