The Erased Mother

For everyone that believes his story of “she beat the shit out of me.” That’s not what happened.  He hit me and I hit him back in defense. He got a scratch on his face from my nail. I have a photo he posted the day after it happened, there are no marks.  I also have my booking photos. Complete with handprints, footprints and bite marks on my back and arm.   I chose not to have him arrested that night. In Ga when they is evidence between both parties of violence they both go. I chose not to file any charges against him because he was the father of my kids and I didn’t want him to lose his job.  This is the warrant they obtained for me. As you can see there is no mention of the injuries he likes to tell people he had.  None. He’s lying.  The holes on our walls? They were there. Some were from him pushing me through walls and some were from me throwing things to make him back off.  I did not kick or punch holes in the wall and ...

Y’all. Someone just sent me this. Lmfao If you know me, you know I don’t get high. Never have, never will. I don’t believe it’s fun. He fails to mention he beat the shit out of me and THATS why I was at the neighbors house, after weeks of being there and realizing he was with someone... Yes, I moved on. Eventually I went back because he begged me to come home. I still have the email where he promised our son could stay at home and he would quit being violent and cheating. I also love how he doesn’t mention how he cheated on me 3 times before he beat the shit out of me and kicked me out of our home months after we got married. Or how I had bruises on me the day we got married. You know? Small details. First time he cheated I was pregnant with our son. He left me at home, 8 months pregnant to go hang out with some chick named Lucy. I still have all of the text where I found him talking to her about me. I will never forget the day I found out. I was almost due with our son and ...

I’m choosing not to address this as I previously did on my socials. I will leave it here. I was send a snippet of what my ex is saying about me online, yet again. So, I will address this one last time and leave it here for eternity.  Whoever is doing this. Please stop. Also, I don’t need you to send me these. I don’t care. But, I will respond in order to defend myself. B, that’s not me. Sorry, not sorry. Believe me, I have better things to do then post from some fake account. As you can CLEARLY SEE I have no issue whatsoever speaking from my own name. My arrest records? Shut up you sorry fuck. I have and will (you can actually see it on my blog or my page) an explanation of every single time I’ve ever been arrested. I don’t have a “record.” Have I been arrested? Yes. Do I have a record? No. Lmao court records? Yeah. I do have some when it comes to you and your wife. Why? Because the two of you continued to repeatedly file fake TPO’s against me. Might I add TPO’s that were ...

I came across these. It almost makes me feel sorry for the poor people that believe him and her and their lies. As you can see, these are old post from my old Facebook. :) I am glad I hung on to stuff like this so that when my children are older and they ask why, I can of course show them!

#ParentalAlienation is very real and it is carried out by abusive cowards not just during the holiday season as a tactic to further vilify and victimize the alienated parent but all year long too. I am and have been the victim of not only PA but #DomesticAbuseByProxy and #MaternalDeprivation for years. My ex husband was a lying abusive violent shell of a man that once the relationship ended and he could no longer physically abuse me chose to keep my children from me. My children have suffered their entire childhood and will have lifetime results they will have to deal with due to this monstrous injustice that has taken place against them. Most often people don't think when they make choices concerning their children, they use children as weapons while not realizing one day their ammo will in fact run out. Don't be a jerk, learn to coparent and do what is best for your child/children... not yourself. If you're a step parent, sit down and let the REAL parents of the child/chi...

Ethan, my sweet boy... One day we will be together on your birthday, one day you will know how much I love you because I will be able to show you. One day you will be free of the monsters that chain you down and lie to you, one day you will be allowed to love freely without fear of abuse from your alienators. One day you will know how much being without you hurts, one day your brothers and sisters will be able to wish you a happy birthday. One day God will right all of these wrongs baby. I love you, I love you with every breath I breathe and every step I take. NO ONE can ever take you from my heart and that is where I carry you.  You are 14 and they have stolen SO MUCH from us without reason ot right. I hope you know how much you are loved, it is beyond measure my sweet boy! We all love you, happy birthday!#EthanJolly #EthanScottJolly #parentalalienation #pas #parentalalienationischildabuse #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienationsyndrome #maternalalienation #mater...

I have saved absolutely everything and anything. I never shut down my old email accounts from when I was married to E and K's dad. I have emails upon emails of us going back and forth, proof of abuse, photos and all sorts of things. Here are a few. Please be aware some of them are graphic and disheartening. This email was written days after I had my twins. My ex husband attacked me in our kitchen to the point I ended up in the hospital having had to have my c section put back together. This was my email to him about that, I had filed papers to separate myself from him and he had begged me not to. This is one of the many random emails I wrote to him describing how I was sick and tired of the treatment and wanted out. This email was written after a physical altercation at his parents house when I tried to take my child and leave. They didnt want me to take him and tried to FORCEFULLY take him from me. His dad hit me and knocked me to the ground (there is a police report). I ended up ...

Another year stolen.  5 Birthdays 5 Easters  5 Christmas  5 first days of school  5 last days of school  I could go on. But I won't.  So much time has been stolen from us and while it's sad and I am heart broken I can't help but be happy to see the amazing kids you are. I'm so proud of the both of you it isn't even funny! One day soon we will be together, this is all about to be over. This 5 year nightmare you were thrown into will soon be done and we will be allowed to live and have a relationship as God intended!  I'm so excited, I can't wait!!!  I pray  that you guys have an amazing new year! I hope that 2016 brings you so much joy you can't stand it, I pray that you do good in school and anything else you set out to do! I pray that you stay safe, healthy and happy my loves.  I close you guys,  Your mom

Merry Christmas my babies!  Now that things have calmed down and I am home where I can post this... Lol I hope everything was what you hoped it would be, I'm sorry for yet another year stolen... I tried to set up a visitation but like always I got no response. I can't wait u till the day I will be able to celebrate with you like others have stolen from me, oh what a awesome day it will be!  We spent Christmas at my moms house in Tennessee, everyone had a good time and so much fun was had. We are now home and just enjoying the days until school starts back up!  Speaking of school, I hope that you guys are doing AWESOME... Half of the year is gone and it won't be long until it's summer time again! Woohoo, hot days and cool pools!  Anyways, I love you guys so so very much! I miss you and I can't not wait to see you again! 

I have always been stead fast about not allowing people to destroy things from when I was married to your dad. I have boxes and boxes of things for you guys that I have saved. They are forever the past and I would never destroy that for y'all.  Anyways, I'm sure you don't see too many pics of your mom and dad together so here is a few.... I found them while emptying out my old email to ready it for deletion.  I don't want to save these but I want you guys to have them...  This was in March of 2008. I'm not sure where we were or what we were doing.  This was Christmas eve 2006.  It's not a very good pic but cell phones weren't the best back then either! Lol  I laugh at the irony of your dads shirt now.  Ethan and Katy, here are some photos of you guys from the same year!  Love you guys so much... I will keep digging for old photos, I know I have a ton somewhere around this house!  Love, mom. 

I hear you won a Magic tournament?  I got this picture!  That's cool stuff! I wish me and your brother Maddox could have been there because he really likes that kind of stuff too! I think you guys would really really get along! He misses you a lot some days and can't wait to have you in his life again!  But anyways, I'm glad you have found something you enjoy doing! I love you so much buddy! 💗

People are always asking me how I came up with your names and I figured I would write it down so you guys would know too... Ethan Scott Jolly Ethan was picked by your dad because of a movie he liked that had Ethan Hawke. Your granddaddy used to joke around and call you Ethan Allen as in the furniture place!  Scott is your dads middle name and you might like to know it is also your nephews middle name. When Jacob had his baby he decided to honor you Ethan by giving Jayden your middle name also! Kaitlyn Dian Jolly Kaitlyn was supposed to be Katelyn. I had my heart absolutely set on that spelling but your dad and I had a disagreement on spelling so we wrote both down on a piece of paper and let Ethan choose, he pointed to Kaitlyn. Kait is after my adoptive mother Kathy and Lyn is after my birth mother Debbie Lynn, I really wanted to honor both of them in naming you. Dian is your aunt Shannon's middle name as well as your granmommies middle name, I thought it would be neat to pass it a...