The Erased Mother

Is going to keep coming. You can’t refute it. It’s time you tell the truth. The children will heal. It’s time you made things right before it’s too late and they won’t ever forgive you.

For everyone that believes his story of “she beat the shit out of me.” That’s not what happened.  He hit me and I hit him back in defense. He got a scratch on his face from my nail. I have a photo he posted the day after it happened, there are no marks.  I also have my booking photos. Complete with handprints, footprints and bite marks on my back and arm.   I chose not to have him arrested that night. In Ga when they is evidence between both parties of violence they both go. I chose not to file any charges against him because he was the father of my kids and I didn’t want him to lose his job.  This is the warrant they obtained for me. As you can see there is no mention of the injuries he likes to tell people he had.  None. He’s lying.  The holes on our walls? They were there. Some were from him pushing me through walls and some were from me throwing things to make him back off.  I did not kick or punch holes in the wall and ...

Y’all. Someone just sent me this. Lmfao If you know me, you know I don’t get high. Never have, never will. I don’t believe it’s fun. He fails to mention he beat the shit out of me and THATS why I was at the neighbors house, after weeks of being there and realizing he was with someone... Yes, I moved on. Eventually I went back because he begged me to come home. I still have the email where he promised our son could stay at home and he would quit being violent and cheating. I also love how he doesn’t mention how he cheated on me 3 times before he beat the shit out of me and kicked me out of our home months after we got married. Or how I had bruises on me the day we got married. You know? Small details. First time he cheated I was pregnant with our son. He left me at home, 8 months pregnant to go hang out with some chick named Lucy. I still have all of the text where I found him talking to her about me. I will never forget the day I found out. I was almost due with our son and ...

My child got mad over a TikTok video I posted eliciting my ex MIL following me. She used to do this on a regular both when I was married to her son and after. She actually used to stalk me while I was married to her son. She’d pay her daughter gas money to come drive by the house I was staying in and take photos of the home and my vehicles outside. After we divorced I did not drive due to medical issues. That didn’t stop them from claiming to a judge in a request for a permanent protective order that was in fact denied on the basis it was determined they lied that I was following them and going places they were. No, I wasn’t. And like I said. The judge even determined that to be a lie and denied their TPO. Anyways. Yeah. She used to follow me but, doesn’t anymore. Everyone now and then they show up to where I am but, apparently that’s me following them even though there have been times where I had been somewhere and physically saw them walk in. I’m still following. You know, they own t...

I am in a mom group. I have been for a while. Some of the moms in the group have been around since everything went down back in 2010. They listened to my ex abuse me on the phone, one of them sent the police to my house once (I told them we were fine and they could leave), a lot of them helped me after he had me falsely arrested. So, one of them took it upon them selves to try and reason with the ex and see if they could get some answers. I did not ask this person to do this and I almost wish they hadn't. But, the answers or lack there of are absolutely comical at best to me. He has absolutely no problems about bashing me in private messages or on the phone but he wont EVER put it out there publicly because, it isn't the truth. He, she and his entire family lied and they know it. They know one day these kids will realize them for what they are and they don't want anymore hard evidence to swing it my way. I get it, I understand. I just still feel like this could all end so ...

I’m choosing not to address this as I previously did on my socials. I will leave it here. I was send a snippet of what my ex is saying about me online, yet again. So, I will address this one last time and leave it here for eternity.  Whoever is doing this. Please stop. Also, I don’t need you to send me these. I don’t care. But, I will respond in order to defend myself. B, that’s not me. Sorry, not sorry. Believe me, I have better things to do then post from some fake account. As you can CLEARLY SEE I have no issue whatsoever speaking from my own name. My arrest records? Shut up you sorry fuck. I have and will (you can actually see it on my blog or my page) an explanation of every single time I’ve ever been arrested. I don’t have a “record.” Have I been arrested? Yes. Do I have a record? No. Lmao court records? Yeah. I do have some when it comes to you and your wife. Why? Because the two of you continued to repeatedly file fake TPO’s against me. Might I add TPO’s that were ...

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I came across these. It almost makes me feel sorry for the poor people that believe him and her and their lies. As you can see, these are old post from my old Facebook. :) I am glad I hung on to stuff like this so that when my children are older and they ask why, I can of course show them!

HAPPY NEW YEAR my sweet babies! You are so loved and so missed by all of us! I hope this year brings you much love and happiness! <3

#ParentalAlienation is very real and it is carried out by abusive cowards not just during the holiday season as a tactic to further vilify and victimize the alienated parent but all year long too. I am and have been the victim of not only PA but #DomesticAbuseByProxy and #MaternalDeprivation for years. My ex husband was a lying abusive violent shell of a man that once the relationship ended and he could no longer physically abuse me chose to keep my children from me. My children have suffered their entire childhood and will have lifetime results they will have to deal with due to this monstrous injustice that has taken place against them. Most often people don't think when they make choices concerning their children, they use children as weapons while not realizing one day their ammo will in fact run out. Don't be a jerk, learn to coparent and do what is best for your child/children... not yourself. If you're a step parent, sit down and let the REAL parents of the child/chi...

Him: I completely and totally understand that you alienate me because you know what you did was wrong and abusive and that because of your personal/social downfalls and need to be superior you cant have the truth coming to light. I understand you hate me because my life is better than what you wanted it to be and I forgive you for calling me unwarranted names because you are simply threatened by my existence and the truths that I tell. You can lie to whoever you want, tell the world you did nothing and I am crazy. When our children are old enough and come to me I WILL SHOW THEM everything I have. I have vidoes of you physically beating, making threats to kill me, photos of you and so many other things... What are those kids going to think when they realzie you stole their childhood out of hatred and the need to cover up what YOU did?  Her: I don't forgive you for anything, you are an insane obsessive stalking lying psycho that put herself into a position she had absolutely n...

The ex husbands wife has visited my blog on stop for years... here is just the last 4 months. The ex husband saved my blogs to his work computer (photos below video) then backed them up to a hard drive at his house.  This is where he was stalking me via his work computer. Notice the dates on the screen shot below? This was from an email that was sent to various people at his former place of employment when they questioned me about him stalking me via his work computer.   What is sad is that instead of stalking me, attacking me on Facebook claiming I'm trying to hack their Facebook and "live vicariously through them" they could be putting the wasted time into bettering themselves for the kids involved. They could be working out a parenting plan to better benefit the children they have destroyed. They could be being better adults, parents and all around humans. Instead, they cant overcome the jealousy in order to grow up and maintain any kind healthy p...

Ethan, my sweet boy... One day we will be together on your birthday, one day you will know how much I love you because I will be able to show you. One day you will be free of the monsters that chain you down and lie to you, one day you will be allowed to love freely without fear of abuse from your alienators. One day you will know how much being without you hurts, one day your brothers and sisters will be able to wish you a happy birthday. One day God will right all of these wrongs baby. I love you, I love you with every breath I breathe and every step I take. NO ONE can ever take you from my heart and that is where I carry you.  You are 14 and they have stolen SO MUCH from us without reason ot right. I hope you know how much you are loved, it is beyond measure my sweet boy! We all love you, happy birthday!#EthanJolly #EthanScottJolly #parentalalienation #pas #parentalalienationischildabuse #parentalalienationawareness #parentalalienationsyndrome #maternalalienation #mater...

I have ALWAYS stated my ex lied to have me arrested. I know my words are just that, words. Anyone he tells the story to is made to believe his side and only his, they never take the time to stop and think that he COULD BE lying... Which he in fact is. This post will dive into why I am being alienated, how it happened and why. Recently, I shared my old journal where I privately wrote about things going on in my life those last to years with him. Back then I had it "locked down" to what I thought were true friends that turned out to not be. A few of them had turned on me and were feeding him info in real time as I posted. Which brings me to this... There were a few reasons my ex set me up to be arrested: 1. His girlfriend and her child were essentially homeless and had nowhere to go... He had already twice tried to move her into our home without my knowledge or consent. He even allowed her ass to pack ALL of my belongings, destroy some of mine and my daughters things and d...

This in itself speaks volumes... http://hollyxjolly.livejournal.com/ That's my old journal from when everything went to hell leading up to my ex falsely accusing me of abuse and having me removed from my children's lives. A liar is something I'm not. No matter what light he paints me in my sparkle will never dull! I know what I personally loved through and he knows what he did to me. Anyone that downplays or denies it only makes a mockery of the suffering I experienced. That is all. I hope one day my children are able to read my words. Although some are harsh and probably shouldn't have been spoken towards others I am glad there is physical evidence that not everything their "father" claims is true. One day the truth will shine!

Posted this to instagram and just wanted to share it here. There is also a photo that goes with it but I can't get it to post for some reason! After my ex husbands recent attack on me I have noticed the ONLY thing he can speak poorly of is MY PAST and things he believes me to have done IN MY PAST or lies he's concocted about MY PAST. Notice the keywords if you will.... MY PAST. Nothing my ex said in his bullshit court chase had anything about my present, all he could do was attempt to smear me with THE PAST. He knows nothing of my present and because of that he is threatened. He's an abusive lying manipulative narcissistic sociapath and that's just present that he has to live in daily. I find it awesome that he can't find anything wrong with my present so he must continue to try and drudge up THE PAST! Don't ever judge someone from their past or hold it against them. It will only come back to haunt you, not them. #maternalalienation #parentalalienationis...

My ex filed a stay in court (against the school board) as you all know to prevent me from obtaining the records. His claim was filled with lies to paint me as an evil person. He called me sporadic, unstable and told many MANY lies to attempt and paint a better picture of himself. My ex will go on and on and on about how I have a violent history and a criminal record. Attached to this post is my "criminal record" as you can see I have  no charges OTHER THAN the incident between myself and my ex. I did plead guilty, I stood no chance in court agaisnt a liar and at that point I was suffering from battered wife's syndrome. I just wanted out of jail and home to my babies and I knew pleading guilty was my ticket home. But no, no criminal record as he and his wife like to state. Anyhow, the school board filed an answer and ultimately my ex and his mother decided to dismiss their case which in turn gave me full access to my children records and educations. I now have the same ...

just a very quick update about the records situation.... This was copied from my facebook page.

I posted this on favebook but I figured I would post here also... Some good points in this. You know... I never thought I'd have to deal with a psycho married to my ex who stalks me through fake profiles and seemingly finds joy in doing so. Even though this "woman" claims to love my children so much she doesn't care to even try to get along with their MOTHER or encourage her husband to co-parent... BUT, instead tries everything she can to prove to ANYONE she can that she's a better mother and wife. Since when is this a competition? Should we not all be working towards the same goal of raising amazing children? Is her life so pathetic that she has to result to bashing a woman and relationship she doesn't know anything about? She has the person she wanted in her life so why isn't that enough? She got my ex husband, he chose her over me (THANK YOU JESUS for that) so why does she continue to act a fool like she has something to prove? She thinks I'm ...

My sweet baby girl turned 11 this year! Oh he glorious it would have been to be able to spend that with her! Yet another year stolen! Happy birthday my precious Katy baby! Mama loves you more than you could ever imagine and you are so very missed by everyone. One day it won't be like this my little love, one day everyone will be free to love each other! ❤️ Everyone on this side is doing well! All of your brothers and sisters miss you so incredibly much! I hope you're doing amazing in school! I got your report cards and saw how awesome you've been doing and it makes me so happy! You're doing great! I wonder if you're still doing gymnastics... your little sister has been asking to get into gymnastics and was excited to hear you had done it too! Right now she's really been begging to do soccer so we are going to try that out. I hope and pray that you had an amazing birthday and I hope hat you continue to do well in school! It's almost Halloween! I...